And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.{Genesis 2:18 }

“A GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND” was the name of a play. That statement is not true, because it all depends on what you are looking for, who you are looking for, and most importantly who you are looking to for this good man. When you begin your search, who do you go to and where do you go? If you want a house you go to a realtor, or a car you go to the dealer. So if you want a good man why not go to the One who creates and manufactures good men, the One who knows their hearts. You don’t know what they look like, because you can’t see their hearts.

The problem with society we look and judge people by their outward appearance, while God by-passes all that and looks at the heart and mind of a person ( 1 Samuel 16:7 & Psalms 7:9). That’s one of the reasons why we have so many divorces. We are looking with lustful eyes, and lust thirsty flesh, then when we wake up to reality, we are trapped with babies, bills, and sometimes diseases, or headaches, heartaches, and strife, when all we had to do was go to the source(God) from the start and wait for confirmation regarding the individual and relatonship. That’s the reason most of us are in a mess, we are always in a hurry to hit the sack or get married, without consulting our Creator.

“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.” So ladies did you put your order or request in to the Lord? Philippians 4:6 states, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your request be made known unto God.”  So did you put your request in to God? This applies to both men and women who are seeking a God-fearing mate, a righteous mate, a loving mate, a kind mate, and a good mate. Don’t request a mate from your friends or family, most of them can’t even choose for themselves much less you, and they can’t see the heart or intent of a person, but God can. Why don’t you try Him(God) for a change.

A good man will never leave or forsake you, because his steps are ordered by the Lord. Read it for yourself, Psalm 37:23-24 says it clearly, “The steps of a good man is ordered by the Lord, and He (God) delights in his way; though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down, for the Lord upholds him with His hand.” There it is, as plain as day, what more can I say, that scripture says it all.
A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
《Matthew 12:35 》

However, I must inform you that this promise is only for those who serve, love, and trust Him(God) with all their heart. You will not get a good man if you don’t put God first, because if you are going to replace God with a good man, then a good man will be very hard to find, but I can guarantee that the devil will have plenty no good ones for you.

One thing you must understand, a good man does not lure you into his nest with the trinkets of the world like money, jewelry, clothes, etc. You will be attracted to him because of his love for God, and if he follows Jesus’s examples, acknowledge God in all his ways, one who prays without ceasing, who walks by faith and not by sight, then trust me he will love you as he loves himself, because he is following the Masters order and plans. The question is can you handle a good man? Can you love him as he loves Christ, without wanting to replace God? Listen up and hear me well, because he is committed to God he will be committed to you, because he is faithful to God, he will be faithful to you. Because he has to answer to God, and that whipping he can’t handle.

If you are looking for someone to satisfy your earthly desires and selfish needs and wants, then don’t ask or look to God for a man, just continue looking in the world, the devil has a few choices lined up for you, which will take you straight to hell with them. No, I am not being harsh or bitter it’s the truth. If you are not serving God, or committed to Him by presenting your bodies as living sacrifices that is Holy and acceptable unto Him, which is your reasonable service (Romans 12:1-2); Then don’t waste your time or bother to ask Him for anything, because only the effectual fervent prayers of the righteous availed much (James 5:16 b), is this you? A righteous person?

However, you can change your status with God by accepting His priceless and best gift of all eternity; His only begotten son Jesus( John 3:16), and confessing with your mouth that He is the Lord Jesus, and shall believe in thine heart, that God has raised Him from the dead thou shalt be saved (Romans 10:9-13). Are you interested? Then let’s get started. Go to the top of this blog, click on to the salvation page, and follow the instructions, it will be the best man you ever find, who was willing to die for you, then you will find an earthly one who will do the same for you, because God sent him.

Now unto Him who is able to keep us from falling and to present us faultless, before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy, to the only wise God, our Savior, be glory, praise, honor and thanks for using me to deliver His message to His children. May He give everyone the spiritual necessities to receive His messages and act accordingly. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Everything and everyone on this earth has an expiration date; unfortunately most of us don’t know it, act like it, or care about it. What would we do if we knew that our last day on earth is today? Would we think or act differently? Would we spend the rest of the time with God or the devil? What would you really do? It is appointed unto men once to die, and after that judgement (Hebrews 9:27). Most folks don’t like to think of death. Some think they will be back as something else. Why would anyone want to come back to sickness and diseases, hate and evil is incomprehensible.

Psalms 89:48 says, “What man can live and not see death? Can he deliver his life from the power of the grave?” That’s why, we should not fear those who kill the body, but cannot kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell (Matthew 10:28), all this is proof that we all have an expiration date on this earth, whether you want to believe it or not. The question is: Where are you prepared to go?  Hell or Heaven? Up or down? Paradise or parch in the fire? The choice is yours, yes it’s time for a reality check. The day is coming when you will expire from this life. My assignment is to let you know that you have choices and the decision is all yours, no one is forcing you.

“For you yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so comes as a thief in the night, for when they say, ‘peace and safety!’ then sudden destruction comes upon them, as labor pains upon a pregnant woman, and they shall not escape; But you brethren are not in darkness, so that this day shall not overtake you as a thief. You are sons of the light and sons of the day; We are not of the night nor of darkness. Therefore let us not sleep, as others do, but let us watch and be sober. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk are drunk at night. But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation. For God did not appoint us to wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, who died for us, that whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with Him.”                                                          – 1 Thessalonians 5:1-10

The only way not to have an expiration date is to follow what Romans 10:9-13 says,”That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised Him from the dead thou shalt be saved.” Because Jesus is the only way, He is the truth, and the only One who can guarantee eternal life, He (Jesus) is also the only way to God (John 14:6). How shall we escape if we neglect so great a salvation, which at first began to be spoken by the Lord, and was confirmed to us by those who heard Him, God also bearing witness both with signs and wonders, with various miracles, and gifts of the Holy Spirit, according to His own will (Hebrews 2:3-4). Just taste and see that the Lord is good; and blessed is the person that trusts in Him (Psalms 34:8).

Friends your expiration date does not have to expire in hell. Give yourself a chance at eternity. Just go to the top of this blog click on to the salvation page, and follow the instructions.Trust me it will be the best gift you ever receive from God. Just read it for yourself in John 3:16-17, “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life…” which means no expiration date on your life. To know more about God and His son Jesus find a Bible believing church to attend,and read your Bible and pray daily,then allow the Holy Spirit to lead and direct you for the rest of your life.

And now all glory, praise, honor, and thanks to God for using me to minister to His children. The God who is able to keep you from stumbling, and who will bring you into His glorious presence innocent of sin, and with great joy; All glory to Him, who alone is God our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Yes glory, majesty, power, and authority belong to Him, in the beginning, now, and forever. Amen.