Most people have problems in relationships,because they compromise. However,the folks who love and fear God,will be obedient to His word. Why would you want to jeopardize your relationship with God,and risk the opportunity of going to heaven. The question is what is more important to you,a night of sin,which leads to hell,or as Ephesians 5:27 that you want to be presented as a glorious church,not having spot,or wrinkle,or any such thing;but that it should be holy and without blemish. Why as a christian would you want to go against God’s commands and plans for your life. Why would you relinquish your royalty,to go back in the darkness after He brought you out into His marvelous light as 1Peter 2:9 states. Is having an illegitimate relationship,better than obeying God? Has fornication and adultery better than eternal life? What’s important to you ? Doing what God says,or doing what you feel or want? Is it such a hard choice to love and obey God,or your flesh and it’s lust. So you don’t have sex or children until you say I do in holy matrimony. As Romans 12:1&2 says,”I beseech you therefore brethren by the mercies of God,that you present your bodies as a living sacrifice, that is holy and acceptable unto God,which is your reasonable service;and be not conformed to this world,and be transformed by the renewing of your mind,that ye may prove what is that good,and acceptable,and perfect will of God. It’s not God’s will for you to disobey,muchless sin against Him. When you have a relationship with God,then you will not be so eager to sin against Him, if you don’t know God nor His Son Jesus,whom,He sent to die fir you,then get started by going to the top of this blog,then click on the salvation page,and follow the instructions,then allow the Holy Spirit to lead and direct you. DON’T CHEAT ON GOD,IT’S NOT WORTH IT.